God
made everyone right-handed, the truly gifted overcome it.
- Anonymous
If the left half of the brain controls the right half
of the body then only left handed people are in the right mind.
- W.C. Fields
(American comedy actor (1880-1946)
Everybody is born left handed. You become right handed
after your first sin.
- Anonymous
Lefties – in great demand but limited supply!
- Anonymous
To be hated cordially, is only a left-handed
compliment.
-Herman Melville (American novelist (1819-1891)
Left handers don't just write differently, we also
think differently.
- Anonymous
(image source: www.lefthandersday.com)
When my son was
a toddler, I was pleasantly surprised to see him use his left hand as the
primary hand of usage. But babies sometimes tend to use both hands equally well
initially and over a period of time, one gets to know whether they are left or
right handed. So when my boy grew up and it was certain that he would be a left
hander, I was very happy. The reason is that I have always been fascinated by
lefties. Not like zoo creatures or something, but it is sometimes fascinating
to see a minority do things in a way which the majority does not follow.
However, when he started interacting with
friends, relatives and even complete strangers, the first question posed to him
would invariably be, "are you left
handed?" with reactions ranging from incredulity to fascination to
surprise and at times, even apparent disgust.
I have seen some
left-handers who use their right hand to eat. Now my little boy uses his left
hand also to eat and you know where conversations lead to. "Do you use that hand to eat?" The human being is
left wondering as to what he did wrong and what that hand was for in the first
place!
Everytime,
particularly at social gatherings like marriages, I would sit next to him and
ask him to go about eating with the left hand without giving much heed to
people commenting. However, over a period of time, he developed a minor
complex. So, I would try my best to eat with my left hand in front of him - it
is easier with a spoon in the left hand, actually. When we played cricket, I
used to play left handed. Bowl and bat left handed. It is difficult for right
handers to do certain things with the left hand, but I did this for him, so
that he would lose his 'complex'. People who were pointing out his 'different'
stance were politely told that that he was left handed and if one is left
handed, one would obviously use it as the primary hand. Over a period of time,
he did lose it. I am happy for him.
But what is it
about the left hand that we dislike? Why is it such a poor cousin of the right
hand? A bad compliment is called a 'left-handed compliment'. A left handed
'pat'. 'Left handedness'. Did you know that 'sinister' is the Latin word for left-handed? Apparently, the English word for left comes from
the Old English word “lyft” meaning 'broken' or 'weak'! When we shake hands, we
use the right hand. A left handed shake is unheard of and if it happens, it is
considered impolite. A handshake with the left hand happens only when the right
hand is injured or engaged in something.
Oh yes, across
all religions, even the Gods bless with their right hand! Is there any left
handed God? (Aside: Atleast there is
unity among all religions on this!)
The possible
explanation is that close to ninety percent of the world's population is right
handed. With so much for a majority, it is natural that they trample upon left
handers. Lefties are odd ones out. The world seems unfair to left handers. A lot
of things in this world are designed for right handers, even the ubiquitous
mouse clicks for computers.
Being left
handed is certainly not a genetic trait. However, there is no definitive study
to suggest why just a minor population of this world is left handed. There are
a lot of famous lefites - Barack Obama, Albert Einstein, Sachin Tendulkar (he
batted and bowled right, though). Left handed sportsmen are called “southpaws”.
This is a baseball term. The reason was baseball grounds were generally built
with the homeplate in the western corner of the field. When a left-handed
pitcher faced the batter, his throwing arm would be the closest to the south.
Thus the word ‘southpaw’ came into
being.
Nevertheless, it
is generally accepted that lefties excel in sports (I still can't forget the
1992 Wimbledon final between Andre Agassi, USA and Goran Ivanisevic, Croatia
where the latter pounded ace after ace!) There are studies to show that they
have higher Intelligence Quotient (IQ) and even excel at Art.
August 13 is celebrated
as “Left-Handers' Day.” No, we don't have a right handers' day. We chaps don't
deserve it, for what we have done to poor lefties!
11 comments:
Nice topic and well written, Pradeep. And I definitely mean it as a "Right-handed compliment"...:D
Thanks :)
'Barack Obama, Albert Einstein....' Pity you Pradeep....how cd ya forget the divas Angelina Jolie, Demi Moore ??
My son is also lefty Pradeep. I like this topic.
Nicely written Pradeep. And Samrat 'Dada'....how can u forget our 'DADA'.
Thanks, Atanu and Padmini. And yes Samrat, i should have included Angelina. Hope someone does not accuse me of gender bias.
lefties are supposed to be smarter than the rest.. so obviously, society will devise ways to bring them in line, better yet subjugate them :p
Good article on the least spoken topic. I am proud that Aditya is a leftie and even today when people ask "he eats with that hand", I proudly say, that is the right hand for him and its nothing strange in using it. Left handers are unique, intelligent, artistic and lucky.
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